| Writing a Character Reference is a powerful way to recognize and praise the unique strengths of others. Character References are great as job references, as well. The key is being specific -- this isn't just a generic "atta boy." This is a a formula for articulating what is truly special about someone you know. It's proof that you have been paying attention to his/her strengths as a human being! |
*This tutorial contains all the resources you will need to write a truly stellar Character Reference.
Find Clear Character Definitions
- Go to http://www.characterfirst.com/aboutus/qualities/ to view my favorite list of character qualities defined.
- Select the two or three that seem to fit the person like a glove.
- You will use the actual definitions in your Character Reference.
- Try to pick character traits that bring up concrete examples of things the person had done or said. THIS IS THE KEY TO A TRULY GREAT REFERENCE.
A Winning Format
The following format works. I have used it for many successful character references. This harnesses the "DIB" format created by Character First. Here is the formula:
- Intro
- First (#1) Character Quality
- Definition
- Example (Illustration)
- Benefit
- Second (#2) Character Quality
- Definition
- Example (Illustration)
- Benefit
- Third (#3) Character Quality
- Definition
- Example (Illustration)
- Benefit
- Conclusion
Templates and Aids
- Online Form: Click Here (takes 24-48 hours to post)
- Download-able Word Template: Click Here
Publishing
Once you have written the reference, you can post it online, where the person you wrote about can always access it and direct others to it. It's free.
